Got the poem below as a forward from a friend. It is supposedly by a kid with leukemia...the usual email story which us cynical folks have learned to treat with rocks of salt...but the message is nice.
We figured part of the lesson out a couple of years ago when we realised we wouldn't have the time, with the kind of work we do, to do something another time. Since then, our rule has been - if you think of something, do it right away - be it buying that shirt or taking the kids to the zoo. We did just that last weekend, though both of us were dog-tired after a crazy week and running around for Chubs' birthday party. But I figured the weather was already so hot that another week would make it uninviting for us and the animals would have retired to their nice, cool lairs.
So off we trekked, for Puddi's first zoo trip. We were so unprepared we hadn't even charged the digicam, but we figured the point of the trip was to see the delight on the kids faces, not to take pictures of it, so we went anyway. We didn't wind up seeing everything, since all the mini-cars in the zoo were full-up and Chubbocks got darn tired after a bit. But we did see the rhinos ( which Puddi referred to as Dinosaur), the giraffes, which were simply mesmerizing, moving with balletic grace as if they were swimming underwater; the zebras ( gee bha LA, as per Puds), one solitary lion and the heffalumps( elephants). And we had our first icecreams of the season.
Now if only we could act upon the rest of the lesson and have each day go by at a little slower pace...
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is doneDo you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over
5 comments:
Nice poem. Enjoyed it - feel as if I have read it before...but it was good reading it again. And so true too...I do lie in bed thinking of a million things! :)
I just read your privileged kids and shriram school posts - nice ones. It is really nice and somewhat amazing for me (as an outsider) that despite being in the midst of all the jazz (I mean the kids who celebrate at five star hotels) you are able to hold your values and be sure of how you want to celebrate your kids b'days. It is easy to just waver and feel a bit unsure if you need to be a little more fancy as well just because your kid's friends are all being so fancy with their b'days...And I like your choice of school as well..
Thanks noon - the poem really reflects our crazed pace of life these days...
Noon - so far we really like the school and the values it stands for - for example, the rule on birthdays is that the kid gets to wear home clothes and distribute 2 ordinary sweets, e.g. Parry's type, to all his classmates. I didn't know and Chubs had asked for some winegums but the teachers sent them right back with a note. It does get hard sometimes not to 'keep-up-with-the-Kapoors', but I'm quite uncomfortable with habituating the kids to an extravagant lifestyle...though I do lose the plot while shopping for myself, sometimes!
Hi,
have been out of touch for some time.. belated wishes for your young man's birthday.. seems like you guys had fun.. u were really lucky with the school there and love the nimbu mirchi idea.. i want to steal that :)
Hi raisingt, I'll give Chubbocks your wishes, and feel free to help yourself to the nimbu!
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